Sharon G. Larsen
Second Counselor in the Young Women General PresidencyMy
very dear young sisters, you have just stood and in your own voices made a commitment to
your Father in Heaven. What were you thinking about while you were saying the Young Women
theme? What is the meaning for you of what you just said?
Remember the story of three young men who had made such a
commitment? They lived in Babylon, where people were not following the Lord. These young
men, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abed-nego, stood as witnesses of God at the peril of their
lives. Living under the rule of King Nebuchadnezzar, they were required by decree that on
a certain day when the music started, all the people in the kingdom were to kneel and
worship a solid gold 90-foot form of a man who represented the king. Anyone refusing would
be thrown into a fiery furnace. There must have been thousands of people in Babylon that
day for the festivities and to witness the dedication of this spectacular golden idol.
When the music began and the herald announced that all must
kneel, everyone obeyed--everyone, that is, but those brave Hebrews. They refused to insult
their God. Can you imagine the courage of these young men? No threats from the king could
dissuade them. With faith in their God, they stood together and prayed as they were bound
and carried to be burned. The furnace was so hot the men who threw them in died. King
Nebuchadnezzar stood by to watch the death of these three infidels. Looking into the
inferno, he asked his advisers, "Didn't we throw three people into the fire?"
They assured him indeed they had. Not quite believing what he saw, the puzzled king said:
"But I see four men loose and walking in the middle of the fire, and [most puzzling
of all] they have no hurt. The form of the fourth man is like that of the Son of God"
(see Dan. 3:2425).
Nebuchadnezzar then called to the Hebrews to come out of the
furnace and declared them to be servants of the Most High God. He sent out another decree
protecting Shadrach, Meshach, and Abed-nego (see Dan. 3:2630).
What does it mean to stand as a witness of God? It means we
will not bow down or give in or be persuaded to do anything contrary to God's will. It
means we will risk speaking up when our knees are shaking. It means we will listen and
follow the still, small voice of the Holy Ghost.
Let's look at an up-to-date version of another heroic Bible
message:
A certain girl went down from her locker toward the
lunchroom and fell among thieves, who stripped her of her confidence and self-esteem when
she overheard them making fun of her and of the way she dressed, and they walked off
leaving her alone and friendless. And by chance there came down a certain girl that way
dressed in fine clothes, and when she saw her, she passed by on the other side of the
hall.
And likewise, a girl from the "in" crowd of
popular girls, when she was at the place, came and looked on her and passed by on the
other side without speaking.
But a certain young woman came down the hall where she was,
and when she saw her, she had compassion and went to her and bound up her wounds when she
said, "Would you eat lunch with me?" (author's adaptation of the parable of the
good Samaritan; see Luke 10:3037).
Looking more closely at this familiar parable, why didn't
the other girls stop to help? Are we so intent on our own problems that we do not notice
or think anyone else has any? Do we judge the girl in need to be socially beneath us and
worry what the popular kids would think if we stopped to help? Maybe the "dream
guy" of the school is waiting to walk you to class and you couldn't possibly keep him
waiting!
Each one who passed the girl in need had one question in her
mind: If I stop, what will happen to me? The girl who did stop to help also had one
question: If I don't stop, what will happen to her? When we are confident of our Father in
Heaven's infinite love, we can reach out to others.
We can be a witness for God when we know Him, when we trust
Him, and when we feel secure in His loving care. There are no new or easy ways we earn a
relationship. It is the old ways, the tried-and-true-always-works ways: scripture study,
prayer, and living those things you learn through your study and prayers. As you read the
scriptures, you become acquainted with what your Father in Heaven wants for His children
and how He continually reaches out to sustain and bless and forgive us.
When you pray for personal guidance, your Father in Heaven
knows what is in your heart, but He wants you to tell Him of your hopes and dreams and
needs. Only when you speak with certainty that, indeed, you do want to be a witness will
you know what you are going to do about it. Let God speak to you and let the sacrament
take on deeper meaning. Hear these familiar words: "And witness unto thee, O God, the
Eternal Father, that they are willing to take upon them the name of thy Son, and always
remember him and keep his commandments which he has given them" (D&C 20:77).
We have received many letters from young women who are
seriously trying to stand as a witness and say what He would say and do what He would do.
Cathy wrote a letter telling about a "good
Samaritan" named Michelle. Cathy had been hospitalized much longer than she had
expected to be. Some friends dwindled away, busy in their own lives; but Michelle came
often and brought fun and cheer. She decorated the dreary hospital room with Mormonad
posters, balloons, and other paraphernalia. One day when Cathy was particularly low,
Michelle thought to bring her scriptures. Cathy said: "Bringing her scriptures and
reading them to me made me want what she had. I wanted to love the scriptures like
Michelle does. Without that act of kindness and caring from Michelle, my testimony
wouldn't be what it is today."
Standing as a witness means you know with certainty that you
want to do what is right and let the consequence follow. To stand means you remain firm
and immovable, even when (or especially when) you are the smallest or the youngest or the
last one standing. You may be the means for holding up others. You have to be strong!
In your mind, how will you be a witness? What is your plan?
Abrey is the designated "pray-er" for her basketball team. Jenelle had the
courage to leave a party showing vulgar movies. Marcie got rid of her immodest clothes.
Witnessing is showing by our behavior what we believe, and
that can start in our own families. How cheerfully do we contribute to our family? How
hard do we work to be successful in our studies? How faithfully do we respond to callings
to serve? How willing are we to forgive someone who has hurt us?
The First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve Apostles have
boldly declared where they stand. Their testimony of the Living Christ, validated by each
one of their signatures, is for all the world to see and know of their conviction.
You too can be confident and powerful as a witness of God.
Live the standards of the gospel of Jesus Christ. Do not compromise. You must not
compromise.
Pay attention to those around you who give you courage and
strength. The testimony of my parents has been a strength to me throughout my life. The
first line of their last will and testament describes what they left for their children
after their death: "We leave with you, our children, our testimony that God lives,
that Jesus Christ, the Only Begotten in the flesh, also lives."
Their testimonies of faith in the Lord took up most of the
first page of their will, and then one simple sentence followed: "Divide up the
material things, and what you don't want give to someone in need or take to the
dump." There wasn't much to divide up, but the wealth of their testimonies made us
rich indeed!
Mom and Dad gave us their most precious possession--their
testimonies of the gospel of Jesus Christ, ending with these words: "May your hearts
ever be open and your feelings tender toward these great truths, is our humble
prayer."
The way you live your life every day, the words you say and
don't say, the people you help, the clothes you wear, your choice of entertainment will
show your strength and courage. It will give you confidence to reach out.
You don't have the power to make rainbows or waterfalls,
sunsets or roses, but you do have the power to bless people by your words and smiles and
your sincere interest in them. Think of it--you carry within you the power to make the
world better for someone each day! That is standing as a witness of God.
I know with all my being that there is no one in all time or
eternity to take your place in the heart of your Father in Heaven. You can trust Him and
depend on Him. There is nothing you have done or can do to separate you from His love (see
Rom. 8:35, 3839). He will never fail you or leave you alone. And in gratitude for His
power and peace and joy, you resist the temptations and enticements of the world and
humbly say, "With my Father in Heaven's help, I will stand as a witness of Him at all
times and in all things and in all places." In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.