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Celestial Connection to Your Teenage Years
Ensign, Nov. 1997, 30-31
Elder Richard J. Maynes
Of the Seventy
Brothers and sisters, this afternoon I would like to direct my message toward the young
men and young women who are growing up in these troubled times. Many of you young people
have established, at least in the back of your minds, lofty goals which probably include
missions, education, temple marriage, successful careers, and, of course, the safe return
to your Heavenly Fathers presence in the celestial kingdom.
One of the great challenges of being a teenager is successfully connecting these
celestial goals with your everyday life. This is difficult because our lives are jammed so
full of worldly stuff. Youre involved with schoolwork; dozens of activities which
include music, dance, sports, various clubs; and, of course, many throughout the world
work part-time jobs as well. Mixed in with this hectic schedule are weekend activities
such as games, dances, Scouting activities, and parties. Everywhere you go youre
bombarded with temptation from peers, television, movies, and music. Wow! What an
adventure!
The real trick is trying to balance the importance of what is happening next Friday
night with whats going to be happening 2, 5, or 10 years from now. You might be
asking, "What does Friday night have to do with two years from now?" Well, it
could have a lot to do with it, depending on where you are and what you are doing.
If you want to reach your potential in the future, if you want to become the person the
Lord wants you to be, you had better work on it today, because it is a true principle that
we become what we do. If we want to be a successful university student, we had better be
successful in high school. If we want to live a celestial life in the hereafter, we had
better live a celestial life here on earth. Our futures are truly connected to our past.
One of the great purposes of the gospel of Jesus Christ is to teach us of our eternal
potentials. The purpose of the organization of the Church of Jesus Christ is to help us
reach that potential.
It is important for you young people to recognize that the foundation of your future
success, both temporally and spiritually, is being built while in your teenage years. If
those years are fractured with sin and go unrepaired, then the structure of your life will
be built upon a weakened foundation. Your future will be less secure and certainly more
stressful.
We all realize that in todays society, the family, and particularly our youth, is
under assault throughout the entire world. The prophet Isaiah saw our day and that it
would be a day turned upside down. This prophecy and warning is found in Isaiah 5:20-21 [Isa. 5:20-21]:
"Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light,
and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!
"Woe unto them that are wise in their own eyes, and prudent in their own
sight!"
As young people growing up in this upside-down world, you have quite a challenge
confronting the various pressures of modern-day life. How will you make it through your
teenage years spiritually prepared for your celestial future? How will you connect your
celestial goals with your everyday life?
I have yet to meet a businessman, educator, artist, or athlete who has attained a high
level of excellence in their chosen field who has not successfully been able to connect
the vision of their future to their everyday life. It is very likely that a goal or vision
not connected to everyday life by specific action will become just another unrealized
dream with nothing more than hope to support it.
So how is it done? How do we connect our hectic daily life to these lofty celestial
goals? The answer is simple.
Lets take an example we can all relate to. Suppose you have a midterm test coming
up in geometry in two weeks. One of your goals is to get an A in geometry. How do you go
about reaching that goal? Do you wait until the last minute and cram the night before the
test? This technique is filled with risk. Instead of truly understanding the material, the
attempt is to learn enough that somehow you can make it through the test successfully.
Unfortunately, instead of being totally prepared and confident about the subject, you walk
into the classroom a little bit nervous, with a lot of hope that the teacher will ask you
the questions which you happen to know. I have a feeling Im not the only one here
today who has experienced this uneasy feeling.
Now lets take another student who, with the same goal of attaining an A in
geometry, realizes that he doesnt want to count on the intangibles of luck and hope.
So, instead of cramming, he or she sets aside a little time every day to calmly and in
depth study the subject. This gives the necessary time to digest and properly understand
the material. If confusion arises on any given topic, theres plenty of time to ask
the teacher for help. Whats the result from this second technique? A deeper
understanding of the material? Increased self-confidence going into the test? Less
reliance on hope? I think so.
Is it actually possible to go into the classroom knowing beforehand that you will get
an A on the test because of your preparation? I know it is. Ive seen it done.
Therefore, if you want to get an A in the classroom, continual daily dedication is the
answer. If you want to get an A in your celestial goals, the same daily technique needs to
be applied.
Young friends, it is very difficult to cram for a mission, and it is equally difficult
to cram for a temple marriage. Dont take the risk. Be wise. Prepare yourselves
daily. Study the scriptures. Communicate with your Heavenly Father in prayer. Attend
seminary. Keep yourselves clean and prepared. Understand that what happens on Friday night
will ultimately impact your celestial future.
If these seemingly little things seem tiresome, tedious, or time consuming, carry on!
The little things that confound the wise also confound Satan. Remember, celestial
blessings are on their way.
How else can you protect yourself against the pressures and evils of the world? Three
hours of church on Sunday? Not likely. Just like in your studies, a concerted daily effort
is the only sure way to come out victorious. The Lord wants you to succeed, and He will be
with you. He will help you and support and sustain you in your time of need if you are
true to His plan. If you stay close to Him on a daily basis, He will stay close to you,
and you will reap untold blessings in every aspect of your life, especially the most
important, the spiritual.
And when the day comes to enter the classroom door of the temple, you will be at peace,
your conscience will be clean, your self-confidence high, and you will know in your heart
that you will receive an A in the most important of all your subjects: your celestial
future.
Young brothers and sisters, it will ultimately be your love of the Lord which will help
you commit and then stay true to your celestial daily plan. I know the Lord lives and His
desire and hope for us all is a celestial future. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen
Quote 1:
"The tenor of our times is permissiveness. A
most popular feature of one of the leading newspaper Sunday supplements portrays the idols
of the movie screen, the heroes of the athletic fieldthose whom many young people
long to emulateas flouting the laws of God and rationalizing away sinful practices,
seemingly with no ill effect. Dont you believe it! There is a time of reckoning,
even a balancing of the ledger.
Its called judgment day, even the big exam of
life. Are we prepared? Are we pleased with our own performances?" (Thomas S. Monson,
"The Lighthouse of the Lord," New Era, July 1980, p. 18).
Quote 2:
Statement by President N. Eldon Tanner:
"To mothers, daughters, and women
everywhere, let me stress the fact that because of your great potential and influence for
good in the lives of all of us, Satan is determined to destroy you. You cannot compromise
with him. You must have the courage, the strength, the desire, and the determination to
live as the Lord would have you livegood clean lives. Girls, keep yourselves
virtuous and worthy of a fine young man who has likewise kept himself clean, so that
together you can go to the House of the Lord to be sealed in the holy bonds of matrimony
for time and all eternity, and prepare a home where God will be pleased to send his spirit
children" (in Conference Report, Oct. 1973, p. 126; or Ensign, Jan. 1974, p. 8).
Quote 3:
Statement by President Spencer W. Kimball:
"I sincerely hope that our Latter-day Saint
girls and women, and men and boys, will drink deeply of the water of life and conform
their lives to the beautiful and comprehensive roles the Lord assigned to them.
"
What satisfying personal lives we
can live! What beautiful families we can nurture and train! What a heavenly future is
ours!" ("The Lords Plan for Men and Women," Ensign, Oct. 1975, p. 5).
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