Counseling with the Lord
M2L22

Contributed by: Ann
Scriptures
Alma 37:37

37 Counsel with the Lord in all thy doings, and he will direct thee for good; yea, when thou liest down at night lie down unto the Lord, that he may watch over you in your sleep; and when thou risest in the morning let thy heart be full of thanks unto God; and if ye do these things, ye shall be lifted up at the last day.

D&C 101:7-8

7 They were slow to hearken unto the voice of the Lord their God; therefore, the Lord their God is slow to hearken unto their prayers, to answer them in the day of their trouble.

8 In the day of their peace they esteemed lightly my counsel; but, in the day of their trouble, of necessity they feel after me.

Alma 34:21

21 Cry unto him in your houses, yea, over all your household, both morning, mid-day, and evening.

2 Ne. 32:9

9 But behold, I say unto you that ye must pray always, and not faint; that ye must not perform any thing unto the Lord save in the first place ye shall pray unto the Father in the name of Christ, that he will consecrate thy performance unto thee, that thy performance may be for the welfare of thy soul.

D&C 88:126

126 Pray always, that ye may not faint, until I come. Behold, and lo, I will come quickly, and receive you unto myself. Amen.

Alma 34:27

27 Yea, and when you do not cry unto the Lord, let your hearts be full, drawn out in prayer unto him continually for your welfare, and also for the welfare of those who are around you.

Alma 34:26

26 But this is not all; ye must pour out your souls in your closets, and your secret places, and in your wilderness.

3 Ne. 13:5-6

5 And when thou prayest thou shalt not do as the hypocrites, for they love to pray, standing in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen of men. Verily I say unto you, they have their reward.

6 But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father who is in secret; and thy Father, who seeth in secret, shall reward thee openly.

D&C 112:10

10 Be thou humble; and the Lord thy God shall lead thee by the hand, and give thee answer to thy prayers.

Alma 34:17-18

17 Therefore may God grant unto you, my brethren, that ye may begin to exercise your faith unto repentance, that ye begin to call upon his holy name, that he would have mercy upon you;

18 Yea, cry unto him for mercy; for he is mighty to save.

Mark 11:25

25 And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.

Alma 34:28

28 And now behold, my beloved brethren, I say unto you, do not suppose that this is all; for after ye have done all these things, if ye turn away the needy, and the naked, and visit not the sick and afflicted, and impart of your substance, if ye have, to those who stand in need-- I say unto you, if ye do not any of these things, behold, your prayer is vain, and availeth you nothing, and ye are as hypocrites who do deny the faith.

D&C 88:63

63 Draw near unto me and I will draw near unto you; seek me diligently and ye shall find me; ask, and ye shall receive; knock, and it shall be opened unto you.

D&C 88:83

83 He that seeketh me early shall find me, and shall not be forsaken.

Stories
Story 1

Tell the following story as an example of how a young woman counseled with the Lord:

"As a young girl I saw many sad things happen around me because of alcohol. Our family didn’t belong to the Church. In fact, I had never heard of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. When I was twelve years old, I started praying each night that Heavenly Father would help me find someone I could marry who would not have a drinking problem.

"Years later, after I finished nursing school, I got my first job working in a small hospital in a remote town. A few weeks later, a young doctor came to work at the same hospital. From the beginning there was something different about him. One of the other nurses suggested that this doctor was not one to get interested in because he was a Mormon! I asked, ‘What is a Mormon?’ She told me they were a strange religious group who did not use coffee, tea, alcohol, or tobacco. We finished our coffee and went back to work. That was the last cup of coffee I ever drank. I could hardly wait to find out more about the Mormons. The gospel message was what I had been looking for all my life. Within a month I was baptized, and later the young doctor and I were married. My prayers had truly been answered, and life had new meaning."

Story 2

A true story told by Barbara Perry Haws, daughter of Elder L. Tom Perry:

"One day I received a long-distance call from my brother. I could tell something was wrong because his voice was serious and my brother is rarely serious. He told me that our mother had just suffered a stroke and was in the hospital. The fear I felt was heightened because I was a long way from home. The only thing I could do was pray. After I prayed, I felt such a warmth go through me that I knew everything would be all right. But a few minutes later I received another call. It was my dad; my mom had passed away. At first I could not believe it because the feeling that all was well was so definite. I later realized that everything was as it should be; my mother had lived rather comfortably with cancer for almost four years—long enough to see my father be called to the Council of the Twelve. But that fourth year the cancer was beginning to cause a lot of trouble. She died calmly thirty minutes after the stroke hit. She had lived a full, beautiful life. When I prayed for her I did not know about the expectation of her death or the trouble she was having. So my prayer was definitely answered and everything was all right."

Quotations
Quote 1

President Ezra Taft Benson has suggested some ways to improve our communication with our Heavenly Father:

"1. We should pray frequently. We should be alone with our Heavenly Father at least two or three times each day: ‘… morning, mid-day, and evening,’ as the scripture indicates. (Alma 34:21.) In addition, we are told to pray always. (2 Nephi 32:9; D&C 88:126.) This means that our hearts should be full, drawn out in prayer unto our Heavenly Father continually. (Alma 34:27.)

"2. We should find an appropriate place where we can meditate and pray. We are admonished that this should be ‘in your closets, and your secret places, and in your wilderness.’ (Alma 34:26.) That is, it should be free from distraction, in secret. (3 Nephi 13:5-6.)

"3. We should prepare ourselves for prayer. If we don’t feel like praying, then we should pray until we do feel like praying. We should be humble. (D&C 112:10.) We should pray for forgiveness and mercy. (Alma 34:17-18.) We must forgive anyone against whom we have bad feelings. (Mark 11:25.) Yet, the scriptures warn, our prayers will be vain if we ‘turn away the needy, and the naked, and visit not the sick and afflicted, and impart [not] of [our] substance. …’ (Alma 34:28.)

"4. Our prayers should be meaningful and pertinent. We should not use the same phrases at each prayer. Each of us would become disturbed if a friend said the same few words to us each day, treated the conversation as a chore, and could hardly wait to finish in order to turn on the TV and forget us" (Ezra Taft Benson, "Improving Communication with Our Heavenly Father," in Prayer [Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1977], p. 111).

Quote 2

President Spencer W. Kimball instructed us on what we should pray about:

"We should express joyful and sincere gratitude for past blessings. The Lord has said, ‘And ye must give thanks unto God in the Spirit for whatsoever blessing ye are blessed with.’ (D&C 46:32.) A wonderful and assuring spirit comes over us as we express sincere gratitude to Heavenly Father for our blessings—for the gospel and the knowledge of it that we have been blessed to receive, for the efforts and labors of parents and others in our behalf, for our families and friends, for opportunities, for mind and body and life, for experiences good and helpful throughout our lives, for all of our Father’s helps and kindnesses and answered prayers.

"We can pray for our leaders. …

"The all-encompassing missionary work should be the constant object of our prayers. We pray that the doors of nations will be opened to receive the gospel. We pray for opportunity and guidance to share the glorious gospel news with others. …

"We pray for the frustrated, the disturbed, the sick, those in need, the sinful. We pray for that person we felt was an enemy. … Can anyone long have an enemy when he prays for persons around him about whom he may have hard feelings?

"We pray for wisdom, for judgment, for understanding. We pray for protection in dangerous places, for strength in moments of temptation. We remember loved ones and friends. We utter momentary prayers in word or thought, aloud or in deepest silence. We always have a prayer in our hearts that we may do well in the activities of our day. Can one do evil when honest prayers are in his heart and on his lips?

"We pray over our [families], our neighbors, our jobs, our decisions, our church assignments, our testimonies, our feelings, our goals. …

"But is prayer only one-way communication? No! … At the end of our prayers, we need to do some intense listening—even for several minutes. We have prayed for counsel and help. Now we must ‘be still, and know that [he is] God.’ (Ps. 46:10.)" ("Pray Always," Ensign, Oct. 1981, pp. 4-5).

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